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I understand. It took me almost 30 years to gain the confidence to share publicly how I felt about the CA Three Strikes law being passed in my family’s name. There are so many valid reasons that we hold ourselves back.

But here's what I've learned: the courage to speak up publicly often starts much closer to home—in our relationships. When we practice saying what's true with the people in our lives, we build the muscle for more honesty everywhere. The boundary you set with a family member, the truth you finally speak to your partner, the 'no' you give a friend—these are not separate from your bigger message. They're the foundation.

Whether it's navigating the complexities of your close relationships or stepping into a more public expression, if you're hearing that voice inside that says 'IT'S TIME'—that voice might benefit from some attention.

Do you have something important to say, but find yourself holding back?

And it still might not be “TIME” to dive in head first and pursue the the biggest version of your expression.

I remember a moment early on in my advocacy when I was invited to speak on Good Morning America, and I started feeling glimmers of a panic attack, which informed my “no” response. I wasn’t ready for that yet.

I believe that anything of substance takes time and care, as well as connection to ourselves—every step of the way.